Thanksgiving Relish

I've been reflecting over more than forty years of cooking Thanksgiving turkeys and even further back when I helped my Mother. My brother was both fascinated and shuddering as she drew the innards from the turkey back in the days before even "minimally processed" birds arrive with the useful parts wrapped and tucked neatly back.

Some holidays are more memorable than others. Dinners delayed until the weekend when blizzards closed the highway. The "fresh" turkey I shopped for at three grocery stores, freezing in the garage where I'd put it for safe-keeping. The year our addition contractor knocked out 20 feet of the back wall of the house, totally gutting the kitchen, two days before Thanksgiving and then disappeared until the Monday after. You would be amazed what you can do with a hot plate and a smoker in a mild Alabama autumn.

Through all the adventures some culinary and holiday truths emerge.

It's hard to totally mess up a turkey -- gravy can always come to the rescue.

If you blend flour with cold water or broth and use that to thicken gravy, you won't have lumps.

Youngsters can always help "make Thanksgiving" by coloring paper napkin rings, writing place cards, spreading cream cheese in celery sticks, setting the table, or helping arrange the buffet line.

An abundance of fresh vegetables, simply prepared, make a more refreshing meal and more room for leftovers.

Precious little is better than a turkey sandwich with potluck relishes pulled from the fridge after the pots are washed, the plates are put in the dishwasher or back in the cupboard, Turkey carcass soup is simmering, and your team has won the big game.

And, above all, what we have most to be thankful for is around our tables, even if we are in different time zones.

Blessings of the season to all.

This quickly and easily made cucumber and onion relish is the perfect accompaniment. It keeps for days in the refrigerator - perfect to go on top of a sandwich made from the turkey leftovers.

Quick Cucumber Pickle

(serves 7 to 8)

1 large cucumber (or use 2 cucumbers and leave out onions)

2 medium onions

1/2 cup sugar

1/2 cup vinegar

1/2 teaspoon salt

Select a cucumber that has not been coated with wax and scrub it well. Slice cucumber and onion as thinly as possible and put into a heatproof bowl. Combine the sugar and vinegar in a small saucepan. Stir to dissolve sugar as you bring it to a boil over medium heat. Pour the boiling mixture over the cucumber and onions. Add salt if desired. Let stand until room temperature, stirring from time to time. Cover and put in refrigerator. Keeps for several days.